I Haven’t Heard from Him. Is-it Well Worth Getting In Touch With Him?

Reader Question:

I was getting together with this guy on and off for a few several months. He has been taking a lot more initiative in order to get collectively. Final week-end we went out to supper, which we never proclaimed a “date,” but we ended up spending all of those other evening together.

By the end of the evening, he started cuddling with myself (holding arms, working fingers through tresses, feet intertwined). At the end of the night as he strolled me to my vehicle, I kissed him. I’ven’t heard from him since.

Could it possibly be well worth calling him?

-Irene (Montana)

Dr. Wendy Walsh’s Solution:


NO!!!! allow him pursue you a little. I’m thinking who had been much more literally hostile on that time.

You didn’t state “He kissed me personally” or “We kissed.” You mentioned you kissed him.

Could with frightened him down?

In my opinion you ought to put reasonable for some time in any case. Contain yourself and hold off to see his subsequent step.

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